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Stopping parental alienation in its tracks

On Behalf of | Jan 8, 2020 | Child Custody

The relationship you have with your kids is likely your most important one. Still, parenting even under ideal circumstances has its challenges. If your ex-spouse is actively trying to destroy your parent-child relationship, you may have a serious matter on your hands. 

Parental alienation occurs when one parent turns the children against the other parent. While this type of emotional manipulation can occur in any type of family, it is often an issue in post-divorce ones. If you do not act quickly, your kids may not want to have anything to do with you. 

Identifying parental alienation 

There is really no such thing as garden-variety parental alienation. On the contrary, this behavior may come in a variety of different forms. Here are some examples: 

  • A co-parent makes negative statements about you to your children. 
  • A co-parent falsely alleges that you engage in improper behaviors, such as child abuse or drug use. 
  • A co-parent tells your children that you do not love them. 
  • A co-parent prevents you from seeing your children or otherwise participating in their lives. 

Stopping parental alienation 

Clearly, you do not want your relationship with your kids to suffer because of your former spouse’s improper behavior. You have some options for stopping parental alienation, fortunately. If the behavior is not out of control, you and your ex-spouse may be able to reach an acceptable solution through negotiation or mediation. For more serious matters, however, you may need to seek a modification of your child custody order. 

Asking a judge to intervene 

Judges in the Keystone State tend to believe kids thrive when both parents foster a positive parent-child relationship. They also consider the best interests of the children when settling custody disputes. Both notions are relevant to parental alienation. Therefore, if you have evidence, a judge may immediately intervene to protect your kids. 

Even though parenting in a post-divorce family can be challenging, you should not have to deal with alienating behaviors. By understanding your options, you can protect both your children and the relationship you have with them.